Necklaces and Men’s Style

A necklace for a guy is a little bit different than one for a woman.
For one thing, men are never going to wear anything that could be considered “costume jewelry” — the big, chunky stuff with rows of jewels that you’ll see accompanying evening gowns. That’s strictly a woman’s fashion.
There’s also much less of an idea among designers that the jewelry should be the centerpiece of an outfit. Men’s jewelry is meant to complement, not to overwhelm.
That means necklaces that are a little more rugged and rough around the edges. Good jewelry for men should look natural — like you’ve been wearing it for years, after it was given to you by your grandfather, who wore it for years before you.
You’ll see some brighter, shinier stuff, of course, and even the massive “bling” of urban caricature. And there’ll be some very light and fragile designs here and there too, but at either extreme you’re talking about exceptions to the rule. They catch people’s attention precisely because they’re so outlandish.
Most men who wear necklaces well won’t be noticeable for their jewelry. You’ll just see them as “stylish,” and then notice the accents over time.
5 Styles of Necklace for Men
There are broad families of necklace styles worth knowing about. These have been traditionally masculine styles for years (although some are worn by women as well), and they’re natural pairs for a classic man’s style.
1. Dog Tags

Military-style dog tags are functionally just a specialized pendant, but they bear mention on their own, if only because more and more jewelers seem to be making upscale versions.
Your basic dog tags, obviously, are a pair of tabs on a ball chain with text on them. Actual military tags usually list the wearer’s name and medical information, and sometimes rank and religious preference.
Decorative takes on the style often keep the blank ovaloid shape but replace the text with an image or raised design. The ball chain may also be replaced with something finer and flashier.
Different people are going to have different takes on this style. Some people love the nod to military style; other people find it disrespectful of actual servicemen and servicewomen, as it trivializes a fairly serious piece of identification.
Wear them if it’s really your style, but be aware that not everyone’s going to love it — and don’t wear a flashy set into a VFW post if you didn’t serve.
2. Chains

Plain, unornamented chains of metal are a classic male adornment. They can create any number of looks, depending on the metal used, the length of the chain, and the style of links and the method of fastening them.
The most classic style of chain necklace has relatively flat loops, spaced close together so that the chain appears as almost a solid ribbon of metal, and is long enough to fall a bit below the collarbone.
These have been seen on men (including men with no other stylish accents in their outfit) for the better part of a century. They’re a statement on their own, whether they’re worn with a white T-shirt or a tailored suit.
The key to wearing a chain well is modesty. Keep the style understated, and keep the chain underneath your shirt. The small amount that’s visible is enough to make your statement for you.
Because the metal basically defines how the entire chain looks, it’s worth spending more to get a higher-quality product here. Avoid cheap alternatives and go for a quality gold, silver, or platinum.